The Jackrabbit Library

Every wedding tells a story—but not every tradition belongs in yours. The Jackrabbit Library is a collection of thoughtful, practical articles that help couples question assumptions, make confident decisions and create a celebration that reflects the life they're building together.

Your Bridal Party Aren’t ATM’s
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

Your Bridal Party Aren’t ATM’s

Wedding party expenses can quickly become overwhelming. Here's why I believe couples should think carefully about the financial burden they're placing on the people standing beside them.

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You do you. I do me. We do us.
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

You do you. I do me. We do us.

Marriage doesn't mean giving up your identity. This article explores finances, hobbies, independence and healthy boundaries for couples building a life together.

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Should a Friend Officiate Your Wedding?
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

Should a Friend Officiate Your Wedding?

Thinking about having a friend officiate your wedding? This guide explores the emotional, logistical, and legal considerations behind choosing a friend versus a professional officiant for your ceremony.

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