The Jackrabbit Library

Every wedding tells a story—but not every tradition belongs in yours. The Jackrabbit Library is a collection of thoughtful, practical articles that help couples question assumptions, make confident decisions and create a celebration that reflects the life they're building together.

What's Your Body Count?
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

What's Your Body Count?

Every wedding decision begins with one question: who's coming? Before you choose a venue or set a budget, your guest list quietly determines almost everything that follows.

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What If the Wedding Came Last?
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

What If the Wedding Came Last?

What if the wedding wasn't the beginning of the trip—but the ending? Rethinking the destination wedding timeline can create a more relaxed celebration, give guests a real vacation, and leave everyone with more meaningful time together.

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Your Name. Your Choice.
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

Your Name. Your Choice.

Changing your name after marriage is a personal decision—not a requirement. How couples can navigate tradition, identity, and what feels right for them.

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Your Bridal Party Aren’t ATM’s
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

Your Bridal Party Aren’t ATM’s

Wedding party expenses can quickly become overwhelming. Here's why I believe couples should think carefully about the financial burden they're placing on the people standing beside them.

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You do you. I do me. We do us.
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

You do you. I do me. We do us.

Marriage doesn't mean giving up your identity. This article explores finances, hobbies, independence and healthy boundaries for couples building a life together.

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Should a Friend Officiate Your Wedding?
Rita Paolo Rita Paolo

Should a Friend Officiate Your Wedding?

Thinking about having a friend officiate your wedding? This guide explores the emotional, logistical, and legal considerations behind choosing a friend versus a professional officiant for your ceremony.

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The Bottom Line Before You Sign

The Bottom Line Before You Sign

Wedding vendor contracts often contain important details about payment schedules, services, and responsibilities that couples may overlook when they’re excited to book their date. Taking a few minutes to understand the key sections of a contract can help prevent misunderstandings and keep the planning process running smoothly.

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Your Venue Tour’s Gotta Knows

Your Venue Tour’s Gotta Knows

Choosing a wedding venue involves more than falling in love with the space. Understanding what’s included, how the timeline works, and what the contract requires can make a significant difference in your planning experience. These questions can help couples evaluate venues with greater clarity and confidence.

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Its Your Wedding. Panic Is Optional.

Its Your Wedding. Panic Is Optional.

Wedding planning doesn't begin with flowers or seating charts. It begins with a few thoughtful decisions that shape everything else. Here's where to start—and why getting the foundation right makes every step that follows a little easier.

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